Why do Relationships go bad?

Why do relationships go bad?

I usually don’t talk about relationships but today I want to talk to you a little bit about relationship dynamics.
I talk about this because there are some bad things that happen on the first,second and even third date which is pretty wrong.

Maybe you have noticed how a relationship evolves even if this happens during a couple of months or the first 10 minutes.

OK,let’s cut to the chase.

Here is the most common scenario:

1.Man meets woman.

2.The woman very beautiful and she knows this for a fact(even if this is not always the case).

3. At the begining the novelty makes the relationship interesting and the sexual energy high.

4. The man starts to do predictable things and stops doing the things that made the woman be attracted to him
in the first case(that is if he’s ever done such things)

5.The woman starts to do things that aparently have no logic for the man,for example she wines on and on
about how the man does only what she wants(What I want to say here is that it makes no sense that a woman should complain about the man doing what she wants,but that is wat she is doing even if you don’t see it)

6. The man starts losing control of the relationship and turns in to a loser that kisses here ass just to be around her.

7. The Woman becomes increasingly disapointed about “her new girlfriend” and in the end she dumps the man.

8.The man starts bashing his head wondering “what did I do wron,I gave her everything that she wanted…”

I think that every man can remember himself beeing in such a situation.
It happened to all of us at least once or twice in our lives.

But what is really happening here?

Why do wemen lose intrest for sex?
Why do they start acting like the boss of you and are always unhappy?
Why do they get angry when we try to do what they want?

The answer is very simple but for the majority of men it is very elusive.

Frankly said the situation is like this:
WEMEN ARE NOT ATRACTED TO MEN THAT DON’T ACT IN AN ATRACTIVE MANNER.

Probably you have learned some things in this book that you did at the begining
but my presuption is that at a later time in the relationship you’ve stoped doing them and
tryed to do her bidding!

My advice to you: STOP NOW,WHY YOU STILL CAN!

Remebmer the first rule of attraction:

ATTRACTION IS NOT A CHOICE,IT IS AN ANSWER!

In other words,wemen don’t decide which are the males they are attracted to.
They’re behaivior is a reaction to the man’s behaivior,to the confidence that he radiates,to his way
of communicating and a couple of other elements.

A woman is not attracted to a man that acts like one of their girlfriends! She does not need another girlfriend!

And what do most men do when they meet an attractive woman?

You’ve guest it,they act like wemen.
They ask her how she’s been doing,what does she want to do tonight,listen to all her problems,offer her a helping hand and kiss her ass until the woman asks them:

“Wouldn’t you rather act like a man?”

Wemen don’t like men they can control.
And the paradox of it is that they will test you all their lives,they will try to control you just to make sure that they can’t! You will always be subjected to this test. So get used to it!

This is what you should do:

If she starts giving signs that:

1.Starts to order you around
2.Is not interested in the sexula side of you relationship.
3.The nicer you are to her,the more nervous and irritated she becomes.

Then you should do some of the following things:

1.Stop acting like a woman!
2.Distance your self a little from her,don’t answer to all her calls.
If she calls you thre times,call her just once back.
3.Reduce the number of times you meet her to 50% of what they are now.
4.Look to your own life and stop beeing her helping hand.
5.Meditate on the aspects of your relationship where you acted like a woman and make sure you never
do it again!

Remember that attractive wemen have many options.
There are always men that hit on them.
There are a million men that want to kiss there ass.

A woman takes pleasure form beeing adorred by a man that she likes but only up to a certain point.
Once you’ve crossed that line everything is over.And onestly,it is very hard for you to know when this happens.

If I had 1 cent for every man that e-mails me and tells me:
“I don’t know what happened.I thought that everything was going well,I did everything she wanted,I was good to her…and then she left me telling me that she needs some time for herself….bla bla.

Important: If a woman feels from the begining that you are the same as all the other ass kissers out there
that want to offer her everything that she wants,you will lose the ball game before it has even started.
So don’t do it!

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Good luck!
Your friend Nicholas:)

Rules of Seduction?

 

The Rules of Seduction

1) The 3 seconds rule

Hello My friend,

Surely you have noticed that in clubs the majority of males sit on the side drinking and wait for something

to happen.
Like wemen should be the ones who come to them, take them by the hand and offer them a night of unforgetable

sex. The problem is that this is never going to happen unless you are a superstar.

It's true that wemen want sex almost as much as guys do, but wemen are genetically programed to wait for the

man to make the first step.

The question here is : why do some men act like wemen?

Most men don't start a conversation with a woman because of their fear of denial.

It's very interesting to see what happens in a man's mind when he see's a beautiful woman thoards which he

feels atracted.

First he thinks that the woman he just saw is to his liking and he thinks that he wants to talk to her.
Apoi insa, incep sa apara tot felul de ganduri de genul:
But then alsorts of thoughts pop up in his brain like:
“She is to hot and she will never look at a guy like me.”
“What if she does not like me?”
“What will I say to her?”
“Surely she has a rich or wellbuild boyfriend.”
So forth and so on,and in conclusion he would rather do nothing and go home alone and masturbate.:)

Would you like it if that this were not the case for you anymore?

The good news is that if you obey the next rule,this will be history for you.

FROM NOW ON,FROM THE MOMENT YOU LAID YOUR EYES ON A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN UPTIL THE MOMENT
YOU SPEACK TO HER NO MORE THAN 3 SECONDS SHOULD PASS!!!

In this way you will have more advantages:

First off the woman will see that you are a spontanious guy and not a weirdow who follows her around the club
all night without having the courage to approach her.

Secondly there is not time so that thous dark thoughts we spoke earlyer about come to your mind.

Usually in a womans mind self confidence is the same as the abillity to make her feel good.

If you make this to a rule you will have one more reason to engadge wemen.

You might be wondering about what you are going to say once you are in front of her,it is enough
to say “Hello,I am…” and extend your hand.

You would be surprised you friendly wemen can be when you are polite to them.

One more thing,don't worry about what you are going to say after that ,It's enough to start the conversation
and she will be the one to continue:).

You can tell her that you've come to the club to have fun,meet new people and make some new friends.

Usually being polite is very hard to come by in a club and thus you will be original from the get go.

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